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She Never Met a Date She Didn't Like: NYC's Most Optimistic Single Gal
Chelsey was a refreshing break from the usual F-Men crowd (present company included). For the most part, she enjoys all of her dates, even if they don't lead to second dates. She had some other controversial stances regarding Santa Claus, cabinets, and dogs...

Nominated by her friend Chris, Chelsey is what happens when Breakfast at Tiffany's meets The Sopranos–elegant, refined, but with that unmistakable red sauce sauciness. A rare breed indeed: an optimistic single woman in NYC who has—wait for it—never had a truly bad date.
Her secret? Even dates with zero chemistry were still companions to explore the city with. With Chelsey, the glass isn't just half full; it's a vintage cocktail worth savoring regardless of who's sitting across the table.
When she's not redefining the dating scene, Chelsey is revolutionizing hosting culture. Forget elaborate dinner parties with perfect place settings—she believes in gathering friends casually and often, even without enough chairs or gasp a proper table. It's about the connection, not the Pinterest-worthy presentation…although her pink cabinets are something to marvel indeed.
And did we mention her thoughts on Santa emerging from basements instead of chimneys? You'll have to listen to the interview for that gem. Trust us, it's worth it.
Do you know a man in NYC who can match Chelsey's optimism and appreciate her refreshing outlook on life?
Is he comfortable with a woman who comes from a large, loud, loving Italian family?
Can he appreciate both her elegance and her red sauce roots?
Is he committed to city life? (Note: Westchest-ahhh is NOT in the cards. Sorry.)
If you know him, let's connect him with Chelsey. Details below 👇
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