Nominated by a former coworker who clearly recognized a catch, Adam brings his sharp wit and genuine warmth to New York's fine dining scene. His journey took an unexpected turn when he left the corporate world of importing to pursue his true passion for food—a decision that speaks volumes about his willingness to follow what matters.
Now established in his chef life, Adam is looking for someone to share those precious off days—the kind of woman who appreciates strolling through the Brooklyn Botanic Garden just as much as exploring the city's hidden food gems. She might even join him for the occasional Mets game (though his heart belongs to the Cubs).
While she doesn't need to share his affinity for jam bands, a little musical appreciation wouldn't hurt. After all, this is a man who once delivered an entire best man speech in Spanish without formal training— a feat that showcased both his quick intelligence and his willingness to go all-in for the people he cares about.
Speaking of meaningful friendships, Adam's two closest college friends are a couple who never make him feel like a third wheel—a quality he hopes to find in his own relationship someday. His humor is quick, his laugh is contagious, and his loyalty runs deep (for baseball illiterate folks: you have to be loyal to be either a Cubs or Mets fan). And in perhaps the most telling demonstration of modern chivalry, he's willing to travel far on the subway for your dates. New Yorkers, you know that's the real deal.
Do you know a woman in New York who can appreciate Adam's multifaceted personality?
Would she enjoy botanical garden strolls just as much as food adventures?
Can she appreciate a man who contains multitudes—from jam bands to Spanish speeches
Is she looking for someone with both the insight to pursue his passions and the humor to make ordinary moments memorable?
If you know her, let's connect her with Adam. Details below 👇
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Nominated by a neighbor who thought it was about time this architect built something more personal, Andrew brings the same thoughtful consideration to his life that he does to his designs—though with significantly fewer building permits required.
Growing up with a father who taught him to care about clothing and a grandmother who owned a dress shop, Andrew learned early that style isn't just about appearance—it's an expression of worldview and personality. Ladies: finally! A guy who will appreciate the time and effort you put into your outfit choices…
While his Chicago career has flourished and his professional network expanded, Andrew finds himself at that interesting intersection where work connections are plentiful but romantic ones more elusive. Perhaps, he suggests, that has all been by design as he has been more focused on his career, his friends, and his family…but he might be ready to reprioritize.
Perhaps Andrew's most visionary idea yet? His proposed national holiday: "Chill the F*ck Out Day" – a revolutionary concept where Americans don't go anywhere, don't do anything, but simply calm the hell down for 24 blessed hours. The fact that he's campaigning for this tells you everything you need to know about his refreshing perspective on our overscheduled lives.
For Andrew, the blueprint of a meaningful relationship includes a partner who brings her own creative vision and sense of fun to the table. As he thoughtfully puts it, when the looks fade and children are grown, these are the qualities that ensure a life well-designed together—preferably one with regular scheduled days to just chill.
Do you know a woman in the Chicago area who appreciates both form and function in her relationships?
Does she express her personality through her unique sense of style? (And can she handle having it thoughtfully appreciated?)
Is she creative, with interests and passions of her own?
Would she support the occasional day where the only thing on the agenda is absolutely nothing?
If you know her, let's connect her with Andrew. Details below 👇
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