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Blueprint for Love: This Chicago Architect is Ready to Build Something Personal

In typical architect fashion he has carefully sketched and revised his plans, he has built his foundation, and now he is ready to add some flourish to his life and find a girlfriend.

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April 03, 2025

Nominated by a neighbor who thought it was about time this architect built something more personal, Andrew brings the same thoughtful consideration to his life that he does to his designs—though with significantly fewer building permits required.

Growing up with a father who taught him to care about clothing and a grandmother who owned a dress shop, Andrew learned early that style isn't just about appearance—it's an expression of worldview and personality. Ladies: finally! A guy who will appreciate the time and effort you put into your outfit choices…

While his Chicago career has flourished and his professional network expanded, Andrew finds himself at that interesting intersection where work connections are plentiful but romantic ones more elusive. Perhaps, he suggests, that has all been by design as he has been more focused on his career, his friends, and his family…but he might be ready to reprioritize. 

Perhaps Andrew's most visionary idea yet? His proposed national holiday: "Chill the F*ck Out Day" – a revolutionary concept where Americans don't go anywhere, don't do anything, but simply calm the hell down for 24 blessed hours. The fact that he's campaigning for this tells you everything you need to know about his refreshing perspective on our overscheduled lives.

For Andrew, the blueprint of a meaningful relationship includes a partner who brings her own creative vision and sense of fun to the table. As he thoughtfully puts it, when the looks fade and children are grown, these are the qualities that ensure a life well-designed together—preferably one with regular scheduled days to just chill.

Do you know a woman in the Chicago area who appreciates both form and function in her relationships?

  • Does she express her personality through her unique sense of style? (And can she handle having it thoughtfully appreciated?)

  • Is she creative, with interests and passions of her own?

  • Would she support the occasional day where the only thing on the agenda is absolutely nothing?

If you know her, let's connect her with Andrew. Details below 👇

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